Two psychologists who have been married for over 35 years say they have the secret to a successful relationships. They've studied 40,000 couples throughout their career and they say there are two words that successful couple say often: thank you. Drs. John and Julie Gottman say everyone wants to be appreciated and the couples that spend time appreciating their partners are the ones that last.
They suggest that instead of constantly knit picking and expressing your discontent, you should be scanning for positivies. Express your appreciation for the positive things your partner does.
Communication is key, both positive and negative, but more positives will go a long way!